Assalamualaikum and hello everyone!
About judgemental. Yea aku tau semua orang ada sifat tu. But can't you guys just keep it to yourself? I mean, do you really have to tell them directly to their face what you think of them? Okey, aku mengaku aku pernah buat jugak tapi tu masa zaman jahiliyyah aku. Wayar otak tak bersambung lagi time tu. Sekarang, aku seboleh boleh bolehnya cuba untuk elak buat benda tu.
Orang yang suka judge orang lain ni sebenarnya dia rasa diri dia lagi bagus walaupun hakikatnya tidak. Mungkin ada sesetengah orang yang menafikan perkara ni. But kemon la people, just admit it. Majority of us did think that we are better than others. I said majority okey. Not everyone. I am also included in those majority.
You don't know what those people are going through and you just simply said bad things to their face. You are just making their life more miserable. Did you know that mental pain sometimes feel like physical pain? Yea for those who doesn't know, now you know it.
These kind of people have a bad influence for others. Ya la, orang macam ni la yang selalu buat orang lain putus asa untuk buat sesuatu yang baik. I am not trying to be a nice person here. I admit that I also made mistakes and be cruel to others too... sometimes. But I did try my best to stop myself from doing those bad things.
So, the one and only advice is try to stay silent. It shows that you are mature enough when you stay silent about these things. Don't judge people if you don't want to be judged. Be nice and people will be nice to you. Trust me. It really worked. Though it takes time because there are a lot of bad people than the nice one. I wonder why...
Okey tu ja la aku nak cakap hari ni. Assalamualaikum!